Tus me nyuam lwj - yuav ua li cas teb kom raug? Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob tsa tus me nyuam lwj?

2024 Tus sau: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2024-02-18 01:27

Ntau zaus koj tuaj yeem hnov cov niam txiv tsis ntev los no: "Kuv muaj ib tug me nyuam lwj! Kuv tsis paub yuav ua li cas!". Tseeb tiag, rau cov neeg niaj hnub no, cov me nyuam tsis zoo thiab tsis zoo yog qhov teeb meem loj. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum tus me nyuam tseem me heev. Tsis yog txhua leej txhua tus paub yuav ua li cas teb rau cov me nyuam whims thiab tantrums. Thiab ntau dua li ntawd, ob peb tus neeg paub yuav tsa tus menyuam li cas. Tom qab tag nrho, txhua tus neeg yog tus kheej. Yog li ntawd, tsis muaj qhov tseeb algorithm rau tus cwj pwm, tsuas yog cov lus qhia me me. Yog li yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob tsa tus me nyuam lwj? Thiab yuav ua li cas kom paub qhov txawv ntawm ib tug me nyuam yaus zoo li ib tug whim los ntawm ib tug tiag tiag hysteria? Tam sim no peb yuav tsum paub.

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Ntau tus ntseeg tias txhua tus menyuam yaus ua qias thiab qia dub txij thaum pib. Tom qab tag nrho, tus me nyuam tsuas yog tsim thiab sim qhia nws tus kheej, qhia nws tus kheej lub siab nyiam thiab kev xav tau. Txawm li cas los xij, qhov kev xav no tsuas yog kev zam kom tsis txhob koom nrog kev yug me nyuam. Txhawm rau txhim kho qhov teeb meem hauv lub sijhawm, koj yuav tsum tau txheeb xyuas qee yam. Muaj 8 lub cim qhia tias tus menyuam tsis zoo. Yuav ua li casteb kom tsim nyog rau tus menyuam tus cwj pwm? Xav paub ntxiv txog qhov no tom qab. Nyob rau lub sijhawm no, cia peb sim nrhiav seb qhov twg qhia tau tias tus menyuam tsis zoo:

1. Tus me nyuam sim ua kom tiav qhov nws xav tau ntawm no thiab tam sim no. Txhua txoj kev thiab tam sim.
2. Txoj kev npau taws tsis tsim nyog. Sij hawm dhau mus, lawv ua ntau zaus.
3. xeev khuam, tus me nyuam tau dhuav sai sai nrog yam tshiab.
4. Tsis quav ntsej cov lus thov los ntawm cov neeg laus. Txhua yam ua tau ua tom qab piav qhia ntev txog qhov xwm txheej thiab kev yaum.
5. Kev siab hlob thiab kev nkag siab ntawm tus tswv.
6. Tus me nyuam sim ua kom cov niam txiv (thiab cov neeg laus) tsis nyob hauv qhov pom kev zoo tshaj plaws, ua kom txaj muag.
7. Yuav tsum tau nyob rau hauv lub tsom teeb.
8. Tus me nyuam tswj hwm niam txiv, thov khoom plig rau kev mloog lus.

Txhua yam no qhia tau tias tus menyuam tau lwj. Tsis yog tag nrho cov paib yuav tsum tshwm nyob rau hauv tag nrho. Nws yog txaus kom muaj qee yam ntawm lawv. Nco ntsoov, tsis yog txhua tus menyuam yaus ua qias thiab qias neeg. Yog li ntawd, muaj cov lus qhia los pab cov niam txiv kom tsis txhob muaj lub siab xav, thiab tseem yuav tsum teb kom raug rau tus cwj pwm txawv txawv.

Dab tsi yog kev lwj siab

Tab sis ua ntej koj yuav tsum to taub meej tias kev ua txhaum me nyuam txhais tau li cas. Feem ntau, ib txhia niam txiv ntseeg hais tias qhov uas tsis muaj kev mloog lus tag yog peb lo lus. Tsis yog.

Ib tug neeg qias neeg tsuas yog ib tug neeg ruam, tus tsis zoo. Nws tsis paub cov kev cai ntawm kev coj cwj pwm, kab lis kev cai thiab lo lus "tsis muaj." Nco ntsoov tias txawm tias menyuam yaus muaj kev xav. Yog li ntawd, qhov tsis muaj tiavkev mloog lus. Feem ntau, xyuam xim rau 8 cov cim qhia ntawm tus me nyuam lwj. Yog tias lawv tshwm sim hauv koj tus menyuam tsis tu ncua, koj yuav tau xav txog kev kho qhov xwm txheej. Txwv tsis pub, me me whims thiab tsis pom zoo nrog koj cov lus qhia tau txais.

Nyob hauv zej zog

Thawj qhov xwm txheej uas peb yuav xav txog yog kev tsis mloog lus hauv cov chaw pej xeem. Ib qho tshwm sim heev, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau hauv cov chaw ua si sib txawv. Piv txwv tias koj muaj ib tug me nyuam lwj (3 xyoos). Nws yog lub hnub nyoog no uas cov menyuam yaus twb paub meej tias qhov "phem" thiab dab tsi "zoo". Yog li ntawd, yog tias tus cwj pwm ntawm tus menyuam muaj hnub nyoog 3 xyoos yog qhov txaus ntshai, nws yog lub sijhawm los pib kho qhov kev loj hlob. Tab sis koj yuav tsum pib nrog koj tus kheej. Yuav ua li cas yog tus menyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab nyob rau hauv qhov chaw pej xeem thiab tsis mloog?

Muaj ntau txoj kev xaiv. Thawj yog tham nrog tus menyuam. Kev xyaum qhia tau hais tias tus cwj pwm zoo li no tsis muaj txiaj ntsig. Tom qab tag nrho, ib tug me nyuam lwj tsis hnov lawv hais dab tsi rau nws. Nws tsim nyog sim, tab sis koj tsis tas yuav cia siab rau kev vam meej. Qhov thib ob txoj kev yog tig ib ncig thiab tawm ntawm qhov chaw ua si / thaj chaw pej xeem. Txhua qhov "showdowns" hais txog tus cwj pwm yuav tsum tau teem caij hauv tsev. Tom qab tag nrho, nyob rau hauv pej xeem koj nthuav tawm koj tus kheej tsis nyob rau hauv lub teeb zoo tshaj plaws. Qhov kev xav me me no tsuas yog qhov koj xav tau! Yog li nws yuav sim tswj koj.

Txawm li cas los xij, qee zaum koj tuaj yeem ua tus saib xyuas xwb. Puas yog koj tus menyuam tsis mloog koj? Nws puas mus qhov twg nws tsis xav tau? Wb saib dab tsi los ntawm nws. Ceeb toom txog kev phom sij thiab cia tus menyuam uayam nws xav tau. Qee zaum qhov ntawd tsuas yog qhov uas tuaj yeem pab tau. Tsis zoo, tab sis zoo heev. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws los txog rau qee qhov kev nqis tes ua hauv chaw ua si.

Nyob hauv tsev

Yog cov me nyuam raug lawv niam lawv txiv ua, ces nyuaj heev rau qhov xwm txheej. Tom qab tag nrho, cov menyuam yaus no yuav cuam tshuam kev thuam thiab thuam txhua qhov chaw: ntawm txoj kev, hauv tsev, hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Thiab koj yuav tsum tso tseg qhov no.

Yuav ua li cas yog tus menyuam npaj "kev ua yeeb yam" tom tsev? Ntawm no koj tuaj yeem siv ob peb lwm txoj hauv kev. Koj yuav tsum tau piav qhia rau tus menyuam tias nws ua tsis yog. Tom qab ntawd, kev rau txim yuav tsum ua raws. Qhia rau nws paub tias nws yuav raug rau txim vim nws tsis mloog lus. Muaj tseeb, sim tsis txhob "mus deb dhau". Koj cov lus cem yuav tsum tsis txhob hnyav heev.

Piv txwv li, koj muaj peev xwm deprive tus me nyuam ntawm tas luav, khoom qab zib, los yog tej yam khoom noj. Txoj kev zoo heev. Tab sis lawv tsis ua haujlwm rau txhua tus. Lwm cov lus qhia zoo yog muab (lossis zaum) tus menyuam rau hauv ib lub ces kaum. Cia nws xav nyob rau hauv ntsiag to thiab solitude txog nws tus cwj pwm. Txoj kev no ua haujlwm zoo yog tias koj muaj tus menyuam tsis zoo (4 xyoos thiab laus dua). Tsis txhob hnov qab txhua qhov kev xav thiab kev xav.

Tsis quav ntsej tag

Los ntawm txoj kev, qhov tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam rau kev tsis mloog lus yog lwm cov txheej txheem uas tau siv los ntawm niam txiv. Yuav kom ua tau li no, koj yuav tsum muaj "ntse ntawm hlau" thiab ntau, ua siab ntev. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau kev tiv thaiv ntawm tus me nyuam lwj. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias nws tseem muaj hnub nyoog preschool.

Tus me nyuam puas muaj kev ntxhov siab? Nwscapricious thiab stubbornly xav tau ib yam dab tsi? Nyob rau hauv teb, cia nws txais tag nrho indifference thiab ignorance. Rau qee cov menyuam yaus, qhov kev qhia no ua haujlwm tsis zoo. Ob peb zaug nws txaus los qhia tias koj tseem hais rau koj tus kheej - thiab tus menyuam yuav tsis txaus siab rau kev tsim txom koj. Muaj tseeb tiag, yog tias koj muaj me nyuam tsis zoo (hnub nyoog 2 xyoos thiab qis dua), ces koj kuj yuav tau ua txhaum, uas cov me nyuam nyiam "siab" rau. Tau lub zog thiab ua siab ntev. Koj yuav xav tau lawv.

Kev sib tham

Txawm li cas los xij, qee zaum nws tsim nyog, raws li tau hais tseg, tham nrog tus menyuam. Qhov kev xaiv no yog tsim rau thawj theem ntawm spoilage. Thiab nws feem ntau ua haujlwm nrog cov menyuam kawm ntawv. Nrog cov menyuam yaus, raws li kev xyaum qhia, koj yuav tsum tau nrog lwm txoj hauv kev.

Yuav ua li cas yog tias koj muaj menyuam yaus? Sim piav qhia seb nws qhov kev ua yuam kev hauv tus cwj pwm yog dab tsi. Tom qab ntawd, yuav tsum muaj kev sib haum xeeb. Piv txwv li, feem ntau tantrums nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam tshwm sim nyob rau hauv kev sib raug zoo rau kev coj noj coj ua niaj hnub. Qhia qee yam kev sib haum xeeb. Piv txwv li, peb mus pw ib teev lig, tab sis rov qab los peb yuav tsum ntxuav tais diav / ua haujlwm tawm / pab peb cov niam txiv / nyob ntsiag to thiab ntsiag to. Feem ntau, txhua tus niam txiv nws tus kheej yuav tsum paub txog txoj hauv kev rau nws tus menyuam. Kev npaj thiab kev sib tham yog kab tias txoj kev kawm zoo tshaj plaws. Tab sis nws tsis tshua ua haujlwm li nws yuav tsum.

Txhob Cia Siab

Nco ntsoov ib txoj cai dawb ceev ntxiv - txawm tias tus me nyuam ua phem npaum li cas (5 xyoos, 2 xyoos lossis tshaj saud) tej zaum yuav ua phem rau hauv kev kawm. Ua ntej, qhov no tsis yog lawm. Yeejtus me nyuam yog qhov kawg. Qhov thib ob, tus cwj pwm zoo li no ua rau muaj kev tsis mloog lus ntau dua, kev chim siab, thiab npau taws rau cov menyuam yaus. Thiab tus tub los tus ntxhais, feem ntau yuav, yuav pib ua txhua yam kom ua phem rau koj.

Txoj cai no kuj siv tau rau kev siv "txiv txoj siv tawv". Txoj kev kawm no tshwm sim, tab sis nws tsis zoo siab txais tos. Hloov chaw ntawm kev quab yuam, nws tso cai rau muab me me npuaj ntawm Pope. Tsis muaj zog. Tsuas yog kom tus me nyuam nkag siab tias nws ua ib yam dab tsi tsis ncaj ncees lawm.

Hmoov tsis zoo, qee zaum koj ua tsis tau yam tsis muaj txoj siv sia. Qhov kev xaiv no tuaj yeem txiav txim siab thaum theem ntawm kev tsis mloog lus yog qhov kawg. Thiab tus me nyuam tsis to taub nws yuam kev nyob rau hauv lwm txoj kev. Muaj tseeb, kev siv txoj siv sia kuj yuav tsum tau dosed, ntse. Koj tsis tuaj yeem nplawm ntau, tsuas yog 1-2 zaug, rau kev kawm. Hmoov zoo, tom qab ob peb qhov kev tua, tus menyuam tus cwj pwm feem ntau hloov mus rau qhov zoo dua.

Qee zaum, cov niam txiv tsuas yog sim ua kom tiav lawv lub siab nyiam. Qhov no yog qhov kev txiav txim tsis ncaj ncees lawm. Tom qab tag nrho, vim hais tias ntawm tus cwj pwm no, cov me nyuam lwj tau txais. Hmoov tsis zoo, ntau tus neeg tsis muaj lub siab ntev. Thiab koj tsuas yog yuav tsum ua raws li tus me nyuam ua tsis taus.

Xyaum qhia tias thaum koj ua raws li tus menyuam coj, nws yuav "tawm ntawm tes". Nco ntsoov, tsis txhob muab rau cov menyuam yaus xav tau. Tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias lawv tawm tsam koj tsev neeg cov txiaj ntsig thiab cov hauv paus ntsiab lus. Nrog rau cov me nyuam tsis zoo, qee zaum koj yuav tsum ua siab ntev thiab ceev faj. Txwv tsis pub kojkoj tsuas yog ua rau koj tus kheej muaj teeb meem ntau dua. Thaum muaj hnub nyoog, cov me nyuam ua tsis taus txiv ua siab tawv thiab loj dua. Lawv qhov kev thov tau loj tuaj, thiab daim ntawv ntawm kev tsis mloog lus tab tom txhim kho exponentially. Thiab nws yuav tsis tuaj yeem tiv nrog lawv yog tias koj ua rau tus menyuam.

tus cwj pwm raug

Thiab tam sim no qee cov lus qhia los pab koj kom tsis txhob tsa tus menyuam lwj. Cia peb pib nrog qhov tseeb tias txhua yam kev kawm yuav tsum tau ua tam sim tom qab yug menyuam. Feem ntau, nws yog cov menyuam yaus uas pib pampered thiab ncig los ntawm kev saib xyuas loj. Ua tiav txhua qhov kev xav, kev xav thiab kev xav. Nws tsis yog lawm. Twb tau hais lawm - tsis tso cai rau ua siab ntev.

Los ntawm txoj kev, qhov no tsis txhais tau tias koj yuav tsum tsis quav ntsej txog qhov xav tau ntawm tus menyuam tam sim ntawd. Es tsis txhob, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws. Koj yuav tsum nrhiav "golden txhais tau tias" uas yuav pab tau raws li qhov xav tau ntawm tus menyuam yam tsis muaj frills. Tsis txhob khiav mus rau tus menyuam sai li sai tau raws li nws xav tau. Cov niam txiv tsuas yog xav mloog lawv tus kheej thiab xav tias thaum lawv cov me nyuam xav tau kev saib xyuas tiag tiag.

Koj tsis tuaj yeem muab kev saib xyuas ntau dhau rau menyuam yaus. Lawv kuj yog tus kheej thiab yuav qhia lawv tus kheej txij li 2-3 xyoos. Thaum lub sij hawm no, tus me nyuam yuav tsum paub tseeb tias qhov "ua tau" thiab dab tsi "ua tsis tau". Yog tias koj sib txuas lus nrog tus menyuam hauv cov koob tshuaj zoo, ces yuav tsis muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab tsis mloog lus. Nco ntsoov, tsis yog ib tug neeg yuav dhau los ua "kab mob". Nws tseem yuav qhia qee yam ntawm nws txoj kev xav thiab kev xav. Cov menyuam yaus ua qhov no los ntawm kev ua kua muag thiab tantrums. Npaj txhij rau qhov tseeb tias qhov tshwm sim tsis tuaj yeem zam tau.

Kev cuam tshuam los ntawm sab nraud

Koj tseem yuav tau nce lub zog rau qee qhov " lim" kev sib txuas lus ntawm cov neeg txawv nrog koj tus menyuam. Kev mloog ntau dhau yuav ua rau muaj kev puas tsuaj. Qhov yuam kev tseem ceeb ntawm ntau tus niam txiv yog qhov chaw tas li ntawm tus me nyuam nrog cov niam tais yawm txiv hlub. Cov laus yuav tso cai rau tej niam tej txiv txwv. Nws tsis muaj txiaj ntsig los ntxias lawv lwm yam. Tsis yog, qhov no tsis txhais hais tias yuav tsum txwv tsis pub niam tais yawm txiv tham nrog lawv cov xeeb ntxwv. Tsuas yog tswj cov txheej txheem no thiab tej zaum txawm sau cov txheej txheem tshwj xeeb ntawm kev sib txuas lus. Ua ib daim memo los yog ceeb toom.

Yog tias koj tus menyuam feem ntau nyob nrog cov neeg laus thiab tom qab qhov kev sib txuas lus no ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab ua rau tsis zoo, koj yuav tau tiv thaiv cov niam tais yawm txiv uas hlub thiab ua siab zoo ntawm tus menyuam ib ntus. Txog thaum koj tuaj yeem tsa tus menyuam thiab txhim kho nws tus cwj pwm. Thiab kom txog thaum koj niam koj txiv lawv tus kheej nkag siab tias koj tuaj yeem tso cai rau koj cov xeeb ntxwv ua dab tsi thiab tsis ua dab tsi. Ib zaug ntxiv, phau ntawv yuav pab tau ntawm no.

cov lus qhia pab tau

Feem ntau, kom tsis txhob tsa tus menyuam lwj, koj yuav tsum nrog nws. Muab rau koj tus menyuam kom txaus siab, txhim kho nws txhua txoj hauv kev, sim ua kom txaus siab rau nws cov kev xav tau. Tab sis tsis muaj frills. Qee zaum cov niam txiv tsis saib xyuas tuaj yeem ua rau tus menyuam pib "hysteria". Los yog, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, kev saib xyuas ntau dhau los ua lub zog rau qhov no.

Tsis txhob hnov qab tias koj yuav tsum ua piv txwv rau koj tus menyuam nrog koj tus cwj pwm. Ua tib zoo mloog, tswj hwm thiab ua kom raug. Ua kev sib tham txog lub ntsiab lus ntawm tus cwj pwm, piav qhia qhov "zoo" thiab dab tsi "tsis zoo". Nws tsim nyog pib txij thaum yau.

Qee zaum, kev tsis mloog lus thiab kev npau taws nrog rau kev ua phem yuav tsum tau kho. Nyob rau hauv lub truest siab ntawm kab lus. Yog tias koj tsis muaj peev xwm tiv tau ntawm koj tus kheej, nws yog qhov zoo dua mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb. Ib tug kws tshaj lij yuav pom qhov ua rau tsis mloog lus, thiab tom qab ntawd tuaj yeem kho tus menyuam tus cwj pwm. Tab sis npaj siab tias qee qhov ntawm koj qhov kev xav kuj yuav tau hloov pauv.