Tus menyuam quaj hauv kindergarten: yuav ua li cas? Komarovsky: adaptation ntawm tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv kindergarten. Psychologist cov lus qhia

2024 Tus sau: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2024-02-18 01:57

Ib tug me nyuam yaus muaj lawv thawj zaug mus rau kindergarten yam tsis muaj kua muag. Tab sis yog tias qee qhov kev hloov pauv mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv preschool dhau mus yam tsis muaj qhov cim tseg thiab qhov tseeb tom qab ib lub lim tiam lossis ob lub hlis tus menyuam nyob twj ywm rau nruab hnub pw tsaug zog, tom qab ntawd rau lwm tus txheej txheem no rub mus ntev, thiab kev quaj tsis tu ncua nrog kev mob tsis kawg. Vim li cas tus menyuam quaj hauv kindergarten? Yuav ua li cas? Komarovsky E. O. - kws kho mob menyuam yaus, tus sau phau ntawv nrov thiab TV qhia txog kev noj qab haus huv ntawm menyuam yaus - muab cov lus piav qhia ntxaws txog yuav ua li cas daws cov teeb meem no kom tsis txhob ua mob rau tus menyuam thiab tsev neeg. Nyeem ntxiv txog qhov no hauv peb tsab xov xwm.

Vim li cas tus me nyuam tsis xav mus kawm kindergarten

Cov menyuam yaus feem ntau pib kawm kindergarten thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob lossis peb xyoos. Lub sij hawm hloov mus rau lub vaj feem ntau nrog kev quaj los yog tantrums. Ntawm no koj yuav tsum paub seb yog vim li cas tus me nyuam tsis xav mus kawm kindergarten, thiab pab nws kov yeej qhov teeb meem no.

Qhov laj thawj tseem ceeb ntawm tus menyuam tus cwj pwm tsis zoo rau qib kindergarten yog cuam tshuam nrog kev sib cais ntawm niam txiv. Nws hloov tawm li nohais tias mus txog rau thaum muaj peb xyoos, tus me nyuam tau inextricably txuas nrog nws niam, thiab dheev nws tau ncaim mus nyob rau hauv ib tug unfavorable ib puag ncig, surrounded los ntawm cov neeg txawv. Tib lub sijhawm, lawv kuj xav kom nws noj thiab ua ntau yam uas nws ua tsis tau raws li kev ntxhov siab. Nws lub ntiaj teb paub, paub txij thaum yau, tig rov los, thiab kua muag ntawm qhov no yuav tsis muaj kev zam.

Yog li, muaj rau lub laj thawj tseem ceeb uas tus menyuam tsis xav mus kawm qib kindergarten:

1. Nws tsis xav ncaim nws niam (overprotective).
2. Ntshai lawv yuav tsis tuaj tos nws hauv kindergarten.
3. Ntshai pab neeg thiab lub koom haum tshiab.
4. Niam tus xib hwb.
5. Nws raug thab plaub hauv vaj.
6. Tus me nyuam nyob ib leeg nyob rau hauv kindergarten.

Lwm yam yog cov menyuam yaus, zoo li cov neeg laus, kuj txawv thiab tsis hnov tsw tib yam li qhov xwm txheej. Ib tug neeg yoog sai rau pab pawg tshiab, thaum ib tus neeg tuaj yeem koom tsis tau txawm tias tom qab xyoo kev sib txuas lus. Hauv qhov xwm txheej no, cov niam txiv yuav tsum npaj tus menyuam rau kev sib cais ua ntej kom lub kua muag thaum lub sijhawm sib cais tsis txhob nchuav mus rau hauv kev npau taws rau ob peb teev.

Yuav ua li cas yog tus menyuam quaj hauv kindergarten?

Txhua qhov ua rau quaj rau menyuam yaus thaum lub sijhawm hloov mus rau qib kindergarten yog suav tias yog qhov qub. Feem ntau, thaum thawj teev, cov me nyuam ua siab mos siab muag, txoj hauj lwm ntawm cov niam txiv yog los pab tus me nyuam kawm paub daws cov kev xav ntawm lawv tus kheej thiab sim nrhiav seb yog vim li cas tus me nyuam quaj hauv kindergarten.

Yuav ua li cas, Komarovsky piav raws li hauv qab no:

1. Kom txo qis kev ntxhov siab, kev siv mus rau qib kindergarten yuav tsum maj mam maj mam. Qhov kev xaiv phem tshaj plaws yog thaum leej niam coj tus menyuam mus rau qib kindergarten thaum sawv ntxov, cia nws quaj rau ib hnub, thiab nws tus kheej mus ua haujlwm zoo. Nws yog kiag li tsis pom zoo kom ua li ntawd. Kev txawj ntse thiab kev hloov kho kom raug qhia tias lub sij hawm siv hauv lub vaj yuav tsum tau nce zuj zus: ua ntej 2 teev, tom qab ntawd kom txog rau thaum yav tav su pw, tom qab noj hmo. Ntxiv mus, txhua theem tom ntej yuav tsum pib tsuas yog tom qab ua tiav kev kov yeej yav dhau los. Yog ib tug me nyuam hauv lub vaj tsis noj tshais, ces cia nws mus txog thaum tav su pw tsis zoo.
2. nthuav koj lub zej zog kev sib raug zoo. Nws raug nquahu kom pib paub cov menyuam yaus uas koom nrog tib pab pawg txawm tias ua ntej nkag mus rau qib kindergarten. Yog li ntawd tus me nyuam yuav muaj thawj cov phooj ywg, thiab psychologically nws yuav yooj yim dua rau nws nyob rau hauv lub vaj, paub tias Masha los yog Vanya kuj mus rau nws. Kev sib txuas lus tawm ntawm tsev kawm ntawv kuj yog ib qho kev ua haujlwm zoo rau kev tiv thaiv kab mob.
3. Tham nrog koj tus menyuam. Tseem ceeb: txhua hnub koj yuav tsum nug tus menyuam tias nws hnub mus li cas, nws kawm dab tsi tshiab niaj hnub no, nws tau noj dab tsi, thiab lwm yam. Qhov no yuav ua rau koj sai sai tiv thaiv kev ntxhov siab ntawm lub hlwb. Nco ntsoov qhuas tus menyuam rau nws thawj qhov kev ua tiav. Yog tus me nyuam tseem tsis tau hais lus, txaus siab rau nws txoj kev ua tiav nrog tus kws qhia, thiab tsuas yog qhuas tus me nyuam rau lawv xwb.

Cov kauj ruam yooj yim no ua tau zoo thiab paub tseeb tias pab tswj cov kua muag hauv qib kindergarten.

Puas tsim nyog tsav tshebmus rau kindergarten yog tus menyuam quaj?

Los ntawm qhov kev xav ntawm kev xav txog kev xav, kev xav thiab kev qhia pedagogy, kindergarten yog suav tias yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas ua rau kev loj hlob ntawm tus menyuam thiab nws txoj kev loj hlob zoo. Lub neej ua ke qhia tus menyuam sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg thiab cov neeg laus, uas, dhau sij hawm, yuav ua rau nws yooj yim rau kev kawm hauv tsev kawm ntawv thiab tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog kev tswj hwm thiab cov npoj yaig ua haujlwm.

Kev npaj raws sij hawm ntawm tus menyuam rau qib kindergarten pib ob peb lub hlis ua ntej qhov kev tshwm sim tau npaj tseg, tab sis txawm tias qhov no yuav muaj teeb meem nrog kev hloov pauv. Txoj hauv kev yooj yim tshaj plaws los siv rau pab pawg tshiab yog cov menyuam yaus uas muaj kev hloov pauv siab, uas qhov kev hloov ntawm scenery tsis ua rau muaj kev tsis xis nyob ntau. Nws yog qhov nyuaj dua rau cov menyuam yaus uas tsis muaj kev hloov pauv. Lawv feem ntau raug xa mus los ntawm lo lus "tsis yog-Sadikov tus menyuam". Cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam li no yuav tsum ua li cas? Puas tsim nyog coj tus menyuam mus kawm qib kindergarten yog nws quaj?

Cov lus teb rau lo lus nug kawg cov niam txiv yuav tsum muab rau lawv tus kheej. Lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb kuj tseem ua si los ntawm ntau npaum li cas tus menyuam mob. Feem ntau, hauv cov menyuam yaus uas tsis muaj kev hloov pauv, kev tiv thaiv kab mob yog txo qis, yog li lawv muaj ntau yam kab mob. Yog tias leej niam muaj peev xwm nyob hauv tsev nrog nws tus menyuam, ces nws kuj yuav txiav txim siab zoo rau nws tus kheej. Tab sis nws yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias, raws li txoj cai, cov menyuam yaus no nyuaj rau kev siv tsis yog rau qib kindergarten, tab sis kuj rau pab pawg hauv tsev kawm.

Kev hloov ntawm tus menyuam hauv kindergarten: tswv yim los ntawm tus kws kho hlwb

Lub ncauj lus ntawm cov menyuam hloov mus rau qib kindergarten yog suav tias muaj ntau ntawmkws kho mob hlwb. Thiab lo lus nug no tseem ceeb heev, vim hais tias tus cwj pwm tom ntej ntawm tus menyuam mus kawm ntawv nyob ntawm nws.

Yuav ua li cas hloov tus menyuam hauv kindergarten? Tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws cov lus qhia npau taws rau cov npe hauv qab no cov lus pom zoo:

1. Lub hnub nyoog zoo tshaj plaws rau thawj zaug mus rau kindergarten yog los ntawm 2 txog 3 xyoos. Koj yuav tsum tau paub nrog pab neeg tshiab ua ntej qhov kev paub zoo "kev kub ntxhov peb xyoos" pib.
2. Koj cem tsis tau tus me nyuam vim quaj hauv kindergarten thiab tsis xav mus xyuas. Tus me nyuam tsuas yog qhia nws txoj kev xav, thiab kev rau txim, leej niam tsuas yog txhim kho nws txoj kev txhaum.
3. Tau mus ncig ua si ua ntej mus saib hauv kindergarten, kom paub pab pawg, cov menyuam, tus kws qhia.
4. Ua si nrog koj tus menyuam hauv kindergarten. Cia cov menyuam roj hmab yog cov kws qhia ntawv thiab cov menyuam yaus hauv kindergarten. Qhia koj tus menyuam ua piv txwv tias nws lom zem thiab txaus siab npaum li cas.
5. Kev hloov tus me nyuam hauv lub vaj yuav ua tau zoo dua yog tias lwm tus neeg hauv koj tsev neeg, piv txwv li, txiv los yog pog, yog tus uas nws lub siab tsis tshua nrog, yuav coj tus menyuam mus.

Sim ua txhua yam kom txoj kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj mus maj mam li sai tau rau tus menyuam mos thiab tsis ua txhaum nws lub cev tsis muaj zog.

Npaj me nyuam rau qib kindergarten

Raws li Dr. Komarovsky, kev hloov pauv hauv ib puag ncig tus menyuam paub yuav luag txhua zaus ua rau nws ntxhov siab. Txhawm rau zam qhov no, koj yuav tsum ua raws li cov cai yooj yim uas yuav npajme nyuam mus ua neej nyob hauv pab pawg.

Kev npaj tus menyuam rau qib kindergarten muaj ntau theem:

1. Lub Sijhawm ntawm kev hloov siab puas ntsws. Kev npaj rau kev mus rau kindergarten yuav tsum pib li ntawm 3-4 lub hlis ua ntej hnub teem tseg. Nyob rau hauv txoj kev ua si, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau piav qhia tias kindergarten yog dab tsi, vim li cas lawv mus qhov ntawd, nws yuav ua li cas rau ntawd. Nyob rau theem no, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom txaus siab rau tus me nyuam, taw qhia nws cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev mus xyuas lub vaj, qhia nws tias nws muaj hmoo npaum li cas nws tau mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv tshwj xeeb no, vim tias muaj ntau tus niam txiv xav xa lawv cov menyuam mus rau qhov ntawd, tab sis lawv xaiv nws vim nws yog tus zoo tshaj.
2. Npaj kev tiv thaiv. Sim so kom zoo thaum lub caij ntuj sov, muab cov txiv hmab txiv ntoo thiab zaub tshiab tshiab rau koj tus menyuam, thiab tsawg kawg ib hlis ua ntej mus xyuas kindergarten, nws raug nquahu kom haus cov vitamins rau cov menyuam yaus mus kawm kindergarten. Qhov no yuav tsis tiv thaiv tus menyuam los ntawm kev kis kab mob thaum muaj kab mob ua pa, tab sis lawv yuav ntws yooj yim dua, tsis muaj teeb meem rau lwm yam kabmob thiab lub cev. Thaum pib ntawm tus kab mob no, sai li sai tau thaum tus me nyuam tsis xis nyob, koj yuav tsum coj nws lub tsev kawm ntawv qib kindergarten thiab pib kho, vim hais tias nyob rau hauv cov ntaub ntawv no txawm tus me nyuam yoog tau tuaj yeem pib quaj.
3. Ua raws li tsoomfwv. Txawm hais tias tus me nyuam twb tau mus kawm qib kindergarten los yog tab tom mus, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau ua raws li kev pw tsaug zog thiab so zoo li hauv kindergarten. Hauv qhov no, tus me nyuam, nkag mus rau hauv cov xwm txheej tshiab rau nws, yuav hnov zoo li kev puas siab puas ntsws.
4. Qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias cov kws qhia ntawv hauv kindergarten yuav tuaj pab nws. Piv txwv li, yog nws xav tauhaus, tsuas yog nug tus kws qhia txog nws.

Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntshai koj tus menyuam kawm ntawv qib kindergarten.

Thawj hnub ntawm kindergarten

Nov yog hnub nyuaj tshaj plaws hauv niam thiab txiv lub neej. Thawj hnub hauv kindergarten yog lub sijhawm ntxhov siab thiab zoo siab, uas feem ntau txiav txim siab seb yuav hloov pauv tau yooj yim lossis nyuaj npaum li cas.

Tig koj thawj zaug mus rau qib kindergarten rau hnub so nrog cov lus qhia hauv qab no:

1. Yog li thaum sawv ntxov sawv ntxov tsis ua rau tus menyuam xav tsis thoob, npaj nws ua ntej rau qhov tseeb tias tag kis nws mus rau qib kindergarten.
2. Thaum yav tsaus ntuj, npaj khaub ncaws thiab khoom ua si uas tus menyuam xav coj nrog nws.
3. Zoo mus pw raws sijhawm kom sawv ntxov tsaug zog.
4. Ua siab ntev thaum sawv ntxov, zoo li tsis muaj dab tsi txaus siab tshwm sim. Tus menyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob pom koj qhov kev paub dhau los.
5. Nyob hauv kindergarten, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau pab tshem tawm thiab coj nws mus rau tus kws qhia. Tsis tas yuav tsum tau khiav tawm sai li sai tau thaum tus menyuam tig mus. Tus niam nws tus kheej yuav tsum piav qhia rau tus menyuam tias nws tawm mus ua haujlwm thiab hais tias nws yuav rov qab los rau nws. Thiab qhov no tsis txuas nrog qhov tseeb tias tus menyuam quaj hauv kindergarten. Yuav ua li cas, Komarovsky piav qhia los ntawm qhov tseeb tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau tus menyuam kom paub tias nws yuav raug tshem tawm sai li sai tau thaum nws noj tshais lossis ua si.
6. Tsis txhob tso tus menyuam thawj hnub ntau dua 2 teev.

Tus kws qhia yuav ua li cas yog tus menyuam quaj hauv lub vaj?

Ntau yam ntawm kev hloov ntawm cov menyuam mus rau qib kindergarten yog nyob ntawm tus kws qhia. Nwsyuav tsum, rau qee qhov, ua tus kws kho mob hlwb uas paub txog qhov teeb meem ntawm cov menyuam yaus hauv kindergarten. Thaum hloov pauv, tus kws qhia ntawv yuav tsum nyob rau hauv kev sib cuag ncaj qha nrog cov niam txiv. Yog tias tus menyuam quaj, nws yuav tsum sim ua kom tus menyuam mos. Tab sis yog tias tus me nyuam tsis sib cuag, ua siab tawv thiab pib quaj txawm nrov dua, ntawm lub rooj sib tham tom ntej nws yuav tsum nug nws niam tias yuav ua li cas rau nws. Tej zaum tus me nyuam muaj qee qhov kev ua si nyiam uas yuav cuam tshuam nws lub kua muag.

Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tus kws qhia ntawv hauv qib kindergarten tsis txhob cem tus menyuam thiab tsis txhob thuam nws. Qhov no yog invalid. hem tias koj niam yuav tsis tuaj rau koj, vim koj tsis noj porridge, yog ua tsis ncaj ncees rau thawj qhov chaw. Tus kws qhia ntawv yuav tsum ua phooj ywg rau tus me nyuam, ces tus me nyuam yuav mus xyuas kindergarten nrog kev zoo siab.

Tus me nyuam quaj ntawm txoj kev mus rau qib kindergarten

Hmoob rau ntau tsev neeg yog qhov xwm txheej thaum tus menyuam pib quaj twb nyob hauv tsev thiab tseem ua li ntawd ntawm txoj kev mus rau qib kindergarten. Tsis yog txhua tus niam txiv tuaj yeem ua siab ntev tiv taus tus cwj pwm zoo li no ntawm txoj kev, thiab kev tawm tsam pib, uas feem ntau xaus rau hauv kev npau taws loj heev.

Vim li cas ib tug me nyuam quaj, tsis xav mus kawm kindergarten thiab cuam tantrums ntawm txoj kev:

• Tus me nyuam tsuas yog pw tsis txaus thiab sawv ntawm txaj twb tsis muaj lub siab xav. Hauv qhov no, sim mus pw ntxov.
• Ua kom txaus sijhawm sawv ntxov. Tsis tas yuav tsum tau hnav khaub ncaws tam sim ntawm lub txaj thiab khiav mus rau qib kindergarten. Cia tus me nyuam pw hauv txaj rau 10-15 feeb,saib tas lauv, thiab lwm yam.
• Npaj khoom plig me me rau cov me nyuam lossis tus kws qhia ntawv. Koj tuaj yeem yuav cov khoom qab zib me me uas tus menyuam yuav muab faib rau cov menyuam yaus tom qab noj tshais, ncuav qab zib, cov ntawv pleev xim uas luam tawm ntawm lub tshuab luam ntawv hauv tsev. Tham txog yuav ua li cas nws mus tsis yog mus rau kindergarten xwb, tab sis yuav ua ib tug khawv koob nyob rau hauv nws thiab nqa khoom plig rau me nyuam.

Yuav ua li cas kom tus menyuam tsis quaj hauv kindergarten?

Cov niam txiv ua tau dab tsi kom lawv tus menyuam quaj hauv kindergarten:

• kev npaj kev puas siab puas ntsws ntawm tus menyuam 3-4 lub hlis ua ntej mus xyuas kindergarten;
• Qhia rau koj tus menyuam ntau zaus txog cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev ua vaj, piv txwv li, ntau tus menyuam nyiam hnov tias lawv tau los ua neeg laus;
• thawj hnub hauv kindergarten, tsis txhob tso nws ntev dua 2 teev;
• tso cai nqa khoom ua si hauv tsev (tsuas yog tsis kim heev);
• Qhia meej meej lub sijhawm thaum niam yuav tuaj tos nws, piv txwv li, tom qab noj tshais, noj su lossis tom qab taug kev;
• nrog koj tus menyuam tham thiab nug nws txog hnub dhau los txhua zaus;
• tsis txhob ntshai thiab tsis txhob qhia qhov no rau koj tus menyuam, txawm tias nws nyuaj npaum li cas rau koj.

Common parenting mistakes

Feem ntau, cov niam txiv ua yuam kev hauv qab no hauv kev hloov lawv tus menyuam mus rau qib kindergarten:

1. Cia li hloov tam sim ntawd yog tus me nyuam tsis quaj thawj hnub ntawm kindergarten. Tus menyuam yaus tuaj yeem tiv taus kev sib cais ib zaug ntawm nws niam, tab sis tib lub sijhawm, cov xwm txheej tsis tshua muaj tshwm sim thaum hnub peb hauv kindergarten.tus me nyuam quaj vim nws tam sim ntawd tso rau tag nrho ib hnub.
2. Lawv dheev tawm mus yam tsis hais nyob zoo. Rau menyuam yaus, qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab ntau tshaj.
3. Tus me nyuam raug blackmail los ntawm kindergarten.
4. Qee tus niam txiv raug tswj xyuas yog tias lawv tus menyuam quaj hauv kindergarten. Yuav ua li cas, Komarovsky piav qhia hais tias nws tsis tsim nyog succumbing rau cov me nyuam lub whims los yog tantrums. Cia koj tus me nyuam nyob hauv tsev hnub no yuav tsis txwv tsis pub nws quaj tag kis los yog hnub tom qab.

Yog cov niam txiv pom tias nws nyuaj rau tus menyuam hloov mus rau qib kindergarten, thiab lawv tsis paub yuav pab tus menyuam li cas, lawv yuav tsum hu rau tus kws kho hlwb. Kev sab laj cov niam txiv nyob rau hauv kindergarten yuav pab tsim ib qho kev nqis tes ua, ua tsaug uas tus me nyuam yuav maj mam siv lub neej hauv pab pawg. Txawm li cas los xij, txhua yam no yuav siv tau tsuas yog cov niam txiv txiav txim siab thiab txaus siab coj lawv tus menyuam mus rau qib kindergarten thiab yuav tsis txaj muag ntawm kev ua raws li tus kws kho kev puas siab puas ntsws cov lus qhia sai li sai tau.