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Nrog rau lo lus nug "yuav ua li cas", lo lus nug "qhov twg" caw ib tug ntxhais rau thawj hnub yog qhov cuam tshuam. Muaj ntau qhov yuav tsum tau ua rau qhov chaw sib tham: nthuav txaus nyiam tus poj niam, tab sis muab lub sijhawm los tham, qhia koj tus kheej, paub nws zoo dua; yuav zoo tsis yog banal, tab sis kuj tsis txhob ntshai tawm ntawm kev tawm tsam, tsis txhob qhia meej tias nws yog taub hau heels hauv kev hlub nrog nws.
B sawv rau Banality
Cafes thiab xinesmas yog ob qho kev xaiv tshaj plaws uas yuav caw ib tug ntxhais. Rau qee qhov laj thawj, qhov chaw rau thawj hnub yog txuam nrog ob lub chaw tsim khoom no. Thiab yog lub tsev noj mov (tshwj xeeb tshaj yog haum rau cov ntxhais thiab ib tug txiv neej) tsis yog lub tswv yim phem, ces cov yeeb yaj kiab qee zaum txhob txwm tshaj tawm thawj hnub mus rau qhov kawg.
Vim li cas?
Kinoteart tsawg kawg yog ib teev thiab ib nrab ntawm kev nyob hauvib qhov chaw, tab sis nyob rau hauv qhov tsaus ntuj thiab silence. Tom qab ua yeeb yaj kiab, tus hluas nkauj nyiam ua yeeb yaj kiab ntau dua li cov neeg uas caw nws, lossis nws dhuav vim nws tsis nyiam qhov nws pom. Txawm li cas los xij, nws xav mus tsev, thiab hnub xaus tsis muaj dab tsi.
zaj movie no zoo rau ob peb tug uas twb paub lawm thiab xav los saib ua ke, tab sis yog ib qho kev xaiv rau qhov chaw uas koj tuaj yeem caw ib tug ntxhais thawj zaug, yeej tsis muaj.
Ntawm lub rooj hauv koj lub tsev noj mov uas koj nyiam
Cafe yog lub tswv yim zoo dua li ua yeeb yaj kiab. Txawm li cas los xij, tsis tas li. Thaum caw ib tug ntxhais mus rau ib lub rooj sib tham ntawm lub tsev noj mov, koj yuav tsum xyuas kom meej tias hom zaub mov twg nws nyiam. Txawm li cas los xij, txawm tias nyob rau hauv qhov xwm txheej no, koj tuaj yeem nkag mus rau hauv kev ntxhov siab. Tus poj niam yuav tsum txaus siab, thiab txij li yuav luag cuaj caum feem pua ntawm thawj hnub nyob rau hauv ib lub café, nws yuav nyuaj heev kom nco ntsoov thiab thawj los ntawm kev xaiv nws. Tsis tas li ntawd, nyob rau hauv xws li ib lub tsev kawm ntawv, yuav luag tag nrho cov hnub yuav tsum tau zaum nyob rau hauv ib qho chaw, thiab qhov no tau nkees ib yam li taug kev, tsuas yog tsawg qab ntxiag. Thiab nyob rau hauv lub ntiaj teb niaj hnub no, muaj cov haujlwm "sedentary" txaus los nyob hauv qhov chaw txawm tias koj lub sijhawm dawb.
Tab sis qhov twg yuav caw ib tug ntxhais thawj zaug? Cov lus qhia tuaj yeem yog qhov paub daws teeb meem, lossis lawv tuaj yeem ua cov npe tshwj xeeb ntawm qhov chaw paub zoo.
Lub nroog chaw ua si lossis khw muag khoom
thawj qhov kev xaiv yog thaum nws sov, tshav ntuj thiab qhuav sab nraum, qhov thib ob yog thaum huab cua tsis haum rau kev taug kev.
Tseem muaj ib pab ntxhais uas, tau hnov qhov kev sib tham zoo li no, tam sim ntawdtsis kam. Hais tias, cov no yog cov tswv yim ntawm cov tub ntxhais kawm txom nyem uas tsis muaj nyiaj ntxiv. Yog li ntawd, cov neeg yos hav zoov rau lwm tus neeg lub hnab nyiaj tuaj yeem raug tshem tawm tam sim ntawd los ntawm kev xaiv raws nraim cov chaw no uas koj tuaj yeem caw ib tug ntxhais rau hnub tim.
Muaj lwm yam txiaj ntsig:
- Tsis tas yuav tuaj nrog cov ncauj lus sib tham - thaum lub sijhawm zoo li no koj tuaj yeem cuam tshuam ntau yam uas tuaj yeem yooj yim thiab sib tham ncaj qha.
- Taug kev, raws li lawv hais, muaj txiaj ntsig. Yog, thiab taug kev rau ob peb feeb hauv qhov ntsiag to, tsuas yog saib txhua yam nyob ib puag ncig, zoo dua li zaum ntawm lub rooj hauv qee qhov tsis txaus ntseeg.
- Txawm hais tias lub tiaj ua si thiab khw muag khoom yog qhov tseem ceeb, qhov no yog lawv qhov ntxiv, vim tias xaiv cov khaub ncaws zoo yuav tsis muaj teeb meem.
Rib
Lub pas dej khov yog ib qho kev xaiv zoo uas yuav caw ib tug hluas nkauj thawj zaug rau lub caij ntuj no. Nws, ntawm chav kawm, kuj yog ib tug classic rendezvous. Ua ntej tshaj plaws, koj yuav tsum tau kuaj nrog tus ntxhais yog tias nws paub caij tsheb thiab, yog tias cov lus teb yog "tsis yog", seb nws puas xav kawm.
Los ntawm txoj kev, txawm tias nws yog caij nplooj ntoos hlav-lub caij ntuj sov, tsis txhob siv cov skates, koj tuaj yeem muab cov rollerblades thiab mus rau lub rollerdrome lossis xauj lawv hauv lub tiaj ua si.
Sport event
Yog tus ntxhais nyiam kis las, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob xav ntev tias yuav caw tus ntxhais mus thawj zaug. Saib kev ua si ntawm ntaus pob, ncaws pob lossis hockey ua ke - tsis zoo li kev ua yeeb yaj kiab lossis kev hais kwv txhiaj, nws yuav muaj peev xwm tham tau, sib tham txog dab tsi tshwm sim, sib pauv kev xav ncaj qha thaum kev sib tw, thiab lwm yam.
Noj tshais ntawmTiffany
Txawm hais tias lub tsev noj mov yog banal heev, nws txhais tau tias feem ntau yog yav tsaus ntuj. Tab sis kev sib tham thaum sawv ntxov, noj tshais ua ke hauv qee lub tsev kawm ntawv yog romantic thiab qab zib heev. Ib qho kev xaiv zoo, thaum huab cua zoo, koj tuaj yeem zaum ntawm lub rooj tsis yog hauv chav nws tus kheej, tab sis hauv gazebo.
Nws yog qhov zoo dua pov tseg lub tswv yim yog tias:
- ntxhais hais tias nws yog hmo ntuj plas thiab sawv ntxov zoo li ntuj txiag teb tsaus rau nws;
- sab nraum nag / te / cua daj cua dub lossis lwm yam huab cua tsis zoo.
Tab sis nws yog qhov zoo dua rau kev taw qhia, raws li niaj zaus, raws li qhov xwm txheej. Koj tuaj yeem tau txais qhov tsim nyog teeb pom kev zoo txawm tias thaum muaj cua daj cua dub sab nraum lub qhov rais, thiab koj txaus siab rau cov kas fes uas muaj ntxhiab tsw hauv lub café zoo. Thiab kev dhuav, dhau los, tuaj yeem tshem tawm ib qho kev sib hlub uas yuav tsum tshwm sim thaum sawv ntxov, lub hnub-drenched gazebo.
Amusement park tawm…
Kev sib tam yog hnub zoo tshaj plaws. Raws li ib qho kev xaiv - attractions hauv cov chaw ua si lom zem. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog xaiv cov uas tus ntxhais nws tus kheej nyiam, thiab tsis hais nyob rau hauv ib tug khiav ceev yog hais tias nws yog ib tug pacifist nrog ib tug me nyuam raug mob los yog lub Ferris log yog hais tias nws muaj ib tug ceeb ntshai ntawm qhov siab. Txawm hais tias ua tsis tiav tag kuj poob siab, tus poj niam "tsis yog" feem ntau xaus rau kev tso cai.
Zoo
Saib cov tsiaj me - feem ntau yuav, qhov kev xaiv hauv kev xav, qhov twg nws yog qhov zoo dua los caw ib tug ntxhais thawj zaug, tsis tau tshwm sim tam sim ntawd. Thiab nws tsis yog qhov phem tom qab tag nrho. Ua tiav qhov ntxeev ntawm cov tuav thiab pub nrog cawv thiab cov lus qhia ntawm cov phiaj xwm"neeg laus" kev sib raug zoo. Kev sib tham nrog ib pawg me nyuam nyob ib puag ncig thiab dej qab zib hauv tes yuav yeej nws lub siab zoo dua thiab nyob hauv nws lub cim xeeb txawm tias tsis muaj dab tsi los ntawm nws tom qab.
Tab sis qhov no yog tus ntxhais hlub tsiaj thiab tsis tawm tsam zoos, tab sis yog nws muaj nws tus kheej cov ntsiab lus ntawm qhov teeb meem no, nws yuav tau xaiv lwm yam.
Bowling
Nov yog lwm qhov kev xaiv rau kev ua si ua si ua ke. Nws tsuas yog yuav tsum tau coj mus rau hauv tus account tias qhov chaw uas ib tug txiv neej caw ib tug ntxhais nyob rau hauv thawj hnub yuav tsum tau nthuav rau nws thiab. Vim li cas ho mus bowling yog tias koj tsis paub yuav ua li cas? Tab sis yog tias tsis muaj teeb meem nrog qhov no - vim li cas ho tsis, qhov tseeb, yog?
Tswv yim: ua ntej caw, ua tib zoo mloog tus poj niam manicure. Yog hais tias cov ntsia hlau ntev, thiab ntxiv mus, tsis tseeb, bowling "tso" los ntawm nws tus kheej. Los yog nws yuav tshwm sim nrog tus khub tus manicure. Qhov ntawd txhais tau tias hnub yuav puas tsuaj.
Picnic tawm hauv nroog
Nws tsis yog lub tswv yim phem los siv sijhawm nyob rau hauv qhov xwm txheej. Lub picnic tuaj yeem npaj ob qho tib si hauv lub tiaj ua si hauv nroog thiab sab nraum nroog. Yog tias koj muaj koj lub tsheb - qhov kev xaiv thib ob yuav ua tau ntau dua. Tom qab tag nrho, "flea khw" nyob rau hauv ib lub minibus los yog lub tsheb npav rau lub hom phiaj ntawm thawj hnub nrog ib tug neeg tsis paub yuav ua rau lub rendezvous.
kev xaiv tsis zoo
Yog lawm, thaum pib ntawm tsab xov xwm, tsis yog cov kev xaiv zoo heev rau thawj hnub tau txiav txim siab, tab sis, ntxiv rau lawv, banal thiab ncaj boring, muaj tag nrho cov txaus ntshai thiab kev puas tsuaj, txhua tus ntawm lawv tus kheej vim li cas..
chaw ua si, pas dej da dej, puam
Cawmus rau txhua qhov chaw teev nyob rau thawj hnub - koj tsis tuaj yeem xav txog qhov phem dua. Cov neeg tsis paub thiab txoj cai muaj - xyaum liab qab. Kev ntxhov siab yuav tsis ua rau qhov xwm txheej tsis zoo, thiab kev sib tham yuav xaus rau hauv lub kua muag. Yog, thiab nws kuj yuav dhau mus.
Tsev neeg ua koob tsheej
Tsev neeg hnub yog ib txwm muaj kev ntxhov siab. Tab sis thawj qhov kev sib tham nrog xws li zaj dab neeg tsuas yog kev puas tsuaj xwb. Ib nkawm niam txiv twb xav tau ib ntus ua ntej yuav sib ntsib niam thiab txiv, peb yuav hais li cas rau cov uas tseem tsis tau txiav txim siab tias txawm yuav ntsib? Tsis yog, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob xav txog qhov kev xaiv ntawd.
hnub pab pawg lossis tag nrho kev ceev ntiag tug
Ntawm ib qho siab mus rau lwm qhov, tsis txhob maj, thiab lub ntsiab lus kub yog qhov kub xaiv. Yog lawm, txoj cai no siv tau rau thawj hnub thiab.
Pab pawg sib ntsib muab kev txhawb nqa ncaj ncees, tab sis tsis sib paub zoo. Nws tsis yog rau tsis muaj dab tsi uas, tau ntsib hauv tuam txhab thiab nyiam ib leeg, tib neeg nyiam sib ntsib thiab taug kev ua ke. Txawm hais tias, tau kawg, kev sib tham uas cov phooj ywg yuav tuaj koom (piv txwv li, hnub ob) muaj qhov zoo: raws li cov lus hais, "qhia rau kuv tias koj tus phooj ywg yog leej twg, thiab kuv yuav qhia koj tias koj yog leej twg."
Solitude ib txwm txhais tau tias kev sib raug zoo. Tsis yog, qhov no tsis yog hais txog kev sib raug zoo ntawm lub cev nrog tus khub, tab sis hais txog kev sib raug zoo ntawm sab ntsuj plig. Thiab thaum lub rooj sib tham thawj zaug, qhib yuav luag rau ib tug neeg txawv txawv - tsis muaj leej twg ntawm ob khub ntawm cov neeg uas tau ntsib yuav twv yuav ua rau cov kauj ruam no (tsim tsis suav). Kev nruj yog lav, tab sis hnub thib ob tsis yog.
Hnub bykev txaus siab
Thaum txiav txim siab qhov twg yuav caw ib tug hluas nkauj thawj zaug, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob xav tam sim ntawd txog qhov koj nyiam. Los yog nws. Peb yuav tsum tau nrhiav kev sib koom ua ke. Thiab yog hais tias ib tug neeg txiav txim siab txi lawv lub siab nyiam ua kom nws txaus siab rau kev txi, nws tseem yuav tsis tsim nyog. Tab sis nws yog qhov phem dua coj tus poj niam mus rau qhov chaw uas nws yuav tsis txaus siab kiag li, txij li qhov kev nyiam nyiam uas tau xaiv yog neeg txawv teb chaws rau nws, dhau li ntawd, nws tus khub them tsawg dua thiab tsis tshua nyiam rau nws vim nws nyiam ua si. Thiab qhov no yog thawj lub rooj sib tham!
Zoo zam zam
Tag nrho cov lus qhia, piv txwv, tswv yim, qhov chaw caw ib tug ntxhais nyob rau hauv ib hnub yog heev generalized, ib tug yuav hais stereotypical.
Piv txwv li, rau hnub tseem tsis pom zoo tham nrog tus poj niam txog cov khoom siv, riam phom, tsheb thiab lwm yam. Tab sis yog tias qhov no yog qhov nyiam ntawm tus ntxhais? Tom qab ntawd qhov no yuav yog qhov kev xaiv zoo tshaj plaws. Tib yam mus rau qhov chaw sib tham. Muaj kev xaiv tsis zoo thoob ntiaj teb - pas dej ua ke thiab tsev neeg sib sau ua ke - tab sis tej zaum tsis muaj qhov zoo thoob ntiaj teb.
Rau ib tug ntxhais yuav muaj hmoo tau mus noj mov hauv Suav teb, vim lub caij nyoog nws hloov tawm tias nws yuav sim txhua yam, tab sis, raws li lawv hais, "tes tsis ncav." Lwm tus yuav nyiam ntaus pob tesniv (ob leeg ntaus pob tesniv thiab ntaus pob tesniv, vim nws nyiam nws), thiab qhov thib peb, qhov siab thiab tsom ntsoov, yuav nyiam chess rau nws. Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau twv thiab koj yuav tsum tau ua ntawm intuition. Cia siab rau koj tus kheej, ua koj tus kheej, thiab txaus siab rau koj thawj hnub. Tom qab ntawd tau txais qhov tsim nyog thib ob.
Kev xaiv sib xyaw
Vim li cas, thaum xaiv, nres ntawm ib yam? Thawj hnub tsis muab cov txheej txheem nruj zoo li no. Ua ke, koj tuaj yeem tuaj nrog ib yam dab tsi nthuav dua "cia mus rau cov yeeb yaj kiab" lossis "cia mus bowling." Piv txwv li, taug kev hauv lub tiaj ua si + café=ib hom ntawv classic.
Thiab muaj ib lub tswv yim tseem ceeb tshaj: muab ib tug ntxhais ib tug saj ntawm, hais, ice cream. Tsis yog tsuas yog taug kev nyob ib ncig ntawm lub khw, tab sis sim nyob rau hauv ntau qhov chaw rau ib lub pob uas txawv heev. Tsis yog nws zoo heev? Tsis tas li ntawd, cov khoom yog zoo heev rau uplifting mus ob peb vas. Yog hais tias tus poj niam tsis yog cov hniav qab zib, lwm yam zaub mov yuav ua ib yam nkaus. Los yog haus.
Txoj cai tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib tham thawj zaug yog kom paub seb tus ntxhais xav li cas thiab ua tiav. Tej zaum koj yuav tau qhib koj qhov kev xav thiab nkag siab qhov nws tus kheej yuav tsis hais. Kev ua kis las hnyav tau suav hais tias yog lub tswv yim phem rau thawj hnub, tab sis yuav ua li cas yog tias skydiving ib txwm ua nws npau suav? Ces koj yuav tsum tsis txhob xav txog qhov twg yuav caw ib tug hluas nkauj thawj zaug, ua, thiab hmoov zoo!
Pom zoo:
Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob thab tus ntxhais? Qhov twg caw ib tug ntxhais? Cov ntxhais nyiam dab tsi?
Koj puas vwm rau koj tus ntsuj plig, tab sis ntshai tsam zoo li ntxhov siab? Yuav ua li cas tsis ua rau ib tug hluas nkauj? Koj yuav tsum tau ua txhua yam ntuj tsim thiab tsis khav kev hlub. Nco ntsoov, tsawg tus neeg mob siab rau kev sib raug zoo ntawm ob, lawv muaj zog dua. Thov koj tus hluas nkauj, npaj hmo romantic thiab nthuav hnub rau nws. Tsis txhob ntshai kom zoo li tsis txaus ntseeg thiab ruam, tsim kev sib raug zoo raws li koj pom zoo
Cov ntxhais nyob qhov twg? Koj yuav nrhiav tau ib tug ntxhais zoo nyob qhov twg? Qhov twg mus nrhiav tus hluas nkauj ntawm koj tus npau suav?
Ib tsab xov xwm hais txog kev sib raug zoo ntawm ib tug txiv neej thiab ib tug poj niam thiab qhov twg txhua leej txhua tus yuav nrhiav tau ib tug ntxhais. Cov ntaub ntawv tseem hais txog qhov yuav tsum tau hloov yog tias koj xav hloov qee yam hauv koj lub neej, suav nrog hauv koj tus kheej lub neej
Yuav ua li cas thiaj ua tau ib qho lus pom zoo: cov tswv yim txawv txawv, kev ua zoo nkauj, cov xwm txheej nthuav dav, cov lus tshwj xeeb hauv paj huam thiab cov lus hais
Koj raug kev txom nyem los ntawm cov lus nug: "Yuav ua li cas thiaj ua tau daim ntawv thov thawj?" Puas yog tag nrho cov tswv yim uas tshwm rau hauv koj lub taub hau zoo li banal? Tom qab ntawd peb yuav qhia koj yuav ua li cas tsis ua raws li tus qauv. Thiab yog hais tias koj yog ib tug hluas nkauj siab tawv uas tsis paub yuav ua li cas los ua ib tug thawj tswv yim mus yuav ib tug txiv leej tub, ces peb yuav muab ib co tswv yim tswv yim. Peb tseem yuav sim tiv thaiv koj ntawm kev ntxhov siab yuam kev hauv qhov teeb meem no
Zoo nkauj npaum li cas los tawm tswv yim rau ib tug ntxhais kom ntsib: tswv yim thiab tswv yim
Kuv nyiam ib tug ntxhais tab sis tsis paub yuav ua li cas rau nws? Hauv tsab xov xwm no, peb yuav qhia koj ntxiv txog yuav ua li cas thiaj ua tau zoo nkauj
Qhov twg thiab yuav ua li cas ua kev zoo siab rau tus ntxhais hnub yug 30 xyoo: cov tswv yim nthuav thiab cov lus pom zoo
Nws nyuaj rau kev sib cav nrog qhov tseeb tias rau ib tus ntxhais lub hnub yug yog ib qho tseem ceeb thiab tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum tau ua tib zoo npaj thiab coj cwj pwm. Nws tseem tsim nyog nco ntsoov tias 30 txhais tau tias qee qhov kev hloov pauv, kab ntawm cov hluas thiab kev loj hlob