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Kev qhuas tus phooj ywg tsis zoo ib yam li hais tus txiv neej lossis tus neeg ua haujlwm. Nws feem ntau tshwm sim txawm tias lub hom phiaj siab tshaj plaws los hais ib yam dab tsi qab ntxiag thaum hais tawm suab nrov zoo li kev thuam lossis zoo li kev hais lus tsis zoo.
Txhawm rau tiv thaiv qhov no tsis tshwm sim, ua ntej koj pib qhuas koj tus hluas nkauj, koj yuav tsum paub seb lawv tuaj yeem ua li cas thiab thaum twg lawv tsim nyog.
Yuav ua li cas?
Kev qhuas tuaj yeem hais ntawm nws tus kheej, cais los ntawm kev sib tham, lossis yog ib feem tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib tham.
Kev ywj pheej yog cov ntawv sau paj huam lossis cov lus hais uas muaj cov npe ntawm cov poj niam zoo nkauj uas ua rau muaj kev qhuas. Raws li txoj cai, cov lus qhuas no tsis yog hais nrov nrov rau ib tus phooj ywg, tab sis tau sau rau ntawm daim ntawv tshaj tawm ntawm qee hnub tshwj xeeb, piv txwv li, hnub tseem ceeb ntawm kev phooj ywg. Txawm hais tias, tau kawg, tsis muaj kev txwv kom yooj yim hais cov ntawv nyeem, txawm li cas los xij, qhov no yuav tsum tau ua nrog rau lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb. Independent poetic lossis prose qhuas tsis yog ntawm covuas yuav tsum tau siv nyob rau hauv kev sib txuas lus tas li nrog cov neeg txuas nrog tsuas yog kev phooj ywg.
qeb thib ob ntawm kev qhuas yog cov uas tuaj yeem hais tau txhua hnub. Ntawm nws qhov tseem ceeb, qhov no yog kev qhuas rau ib yam dab tsi - hnav ris tsho, khau, muaj peev xwm ua haujlwm, xim plaub hau, thiab lwm yam. Nyob rau hauv lem, cov lus zoo uas yuav hais tau ib txwm muab faib ua pawg.
Kev qhuas txhua hnub yog dab tsi?
Tseem tsis muaj ntau lo lus zoo siab. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias lawv hais tawm ntawm qhov chaw, ces qhov kev qhuas yuav zoo li flattery. Ntawd yog, es tsis txhob hais tawm qhov kev xav zoo hauv ib tus phooj ywg thiab paub tias kev sib txuas lus zoo li cas, qhov tshwm sim tsis zoo yuav ua tiav.
Txhua cov lus zoo txhua hnub poob rau hauv ib pawg hauv qab no:
- veiled or indirect;
- tsim los ua rau koj luag;
- sliding or emotionless;
- kev txhawb nqa;
- ua ntawm kev tawm tsam;
- ncig;
- nug.
Txhua yam kev qhuas hauv kev sib tham muaj nws qhov chaw, tsuas yog tom qab ntawd lawv yuav dhau los ua cov organic sib txuas lus, thiab yuav tsis siv cov lus thuam thuam.
Indirect
hom lus zoo no tsis yog hais lus qhuas, tab sis tuaj yeem ua rau tus poj niam muaj kev hwm tus kheej.
Ib qho piv txwv ntawm cov kab lus no: "Koj paub, txhua yam ua tiav yooj yim thiab nrawm nrog koj. Kuv xav tias kuv yuav siv txhua hnub nrog qhov no thiab tseem ua tsis tiav. Ua tsaug, (npe), ntau heev."
tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsiib tug phooj ywg pab khoom, tu, ci ncuav los yog lwm yam.
funny
Zaj lus qhuas tus phooj ywg yuav tsum hais yog tias nws paub txog kev lom zem xwb, txwv tsis pub tus neeg tuaj yeem ua phem rau.
Piv txwv ntawm kab lus: "Nyob kuv kub, noj. Kuv tsuas yog saib ib zaj dab neeg txog txoj kev taug kev tab tom nthuav dav hauv nroog. Koj puas xav tau ib co ntxiv éclair?".
hom kev qhuas no tsis yog tsuas yog ua rau luag rau koj tus kheej lossis qhov xwm txheej xwb, tab sis kuj yog kev txhawb zog.
Malls
Cov lus zoo li no tau hais dhau los, tsis muaj kev xav. Lawv tuaj yeem hais rau txhua tus thiab tsis tu ncua, txawm tias cov poj niam uas xav tsis thoob thiab ua siab tawv.
Piv txwv ntawm kev qhuas: "Koj muaj cov ris tsho txias los ntawm txoj kev, koj tseem yuav tau yuav lawv."
Tom qab hais cov kab lus no, koj yuav tsum txuas ntxiv kev sib tham lossis ua qhov koj tau ua ua ntej.
Supportive
Cov lus no yog hais thaum tus poj niam tsis paub meej txog ib yam dab tsi. Piv txwv li, nws tsis tuaj yeem txiav txim siab yuav lub tsho loj lossis lub tsho plaub. Yog ib yam zoo tiag tiag thiab haum rau poj niam ces koj yuav tsum txhawb nqa.
Piv txwv ntawm cov lus txhawb nqa: “Koj xav li cas? Saib seb nws zaum zoo li nws tau tsim rau koj. Tsis tas li ntawd, thov txim rau ncaj qha, tab sis hauv qhov no (lub npe ntawm yam khoom) koj saib kaum xyoo yau dua. Kuv xav tau ib yam thiab."
Txawm li cas los xij, yog qhov tsis haum tiag tiag, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob hais nws.
Yuav hais li cas rau tus kheej qhuas?
Cov lus zoo no yog lub sijhawm los sib tham nrogcov hnub tus kheej, xws li hnub tseem ceeb ntawm kev phooj ywg.
Ntawm no yog qhov qhuas rau tus phooj ywg hauv nqe lus yuav zoo li:
Kuv tus hluas nkauj kub, Koj, zoo li lub hnub, sov thaum sawv ntxov.
rau kuv koj yog lub khob loj, Lub qab twg tsis pom.
Koj paub quaj nrog kuv, Qhia nyob ntsiag to, qee zaum dag nyob ib puag ncig.
koj thiab kuv nyiam paw thiab cov khau bast.
Tsis muaj leej twg tuaj yeem cais peb."
Thiab yog li koj tuaj yeem hais qhuas tus phooj ywg hauv kev hais lus: “(Npe), koj yog tus neeg zoo tshaj plaws hauv ntiaj teb. Tsuas yog koj tuaj yeem hais txhua yam uas tsis xis nyob xav txog. Koj yog tus kuv hlub."
"Nyob zoo os. Koj zoo nkauj npaum li cas hnub no - tsis txhob hnia koj ob lub qhov muag. Thiab kuv txawm paub vim li cas. Vim koj thiab kuv yog phooj ywg tau (ntau) xyoo."
Yuav tsum hais lus qhuas, tab sis qhov tseem ceeb ntawm cov lus yog ncaj ncees thiab ncaj ncees, tsuas yog qhov kev qhuas yuav zoo siab.
Pom zoo:
Tus txiv tus phooj ywg: cuam tshuam rau tsev neeg, tus cwj pwm ntawm kev phooj ywg, tawm tsam kev saib xyuas thiab cov lus qhia los ntawm kws kho mob hlwb
Cov poj niam feem ntau yws yws tias nyob rau hauv kev cuam tshuam ntawm lawv tus phooj ywg zoo tshaj plaws, tus txiv hloov pauv ntau zuj zus - nws pib taug kev, haus dej haus thiab qhia kev ua phem hauv tsev. Txawm li cas los xij, lub peev xwm los hloov pauv tus cwj pwm ntawm tus neeg tsis yog tus yam ntxwv ntawm cov phooj ywg phem tshaj plaws. Ib tug ntxhais yuav ua li cas txhim kho kev sib raug zoo nrog nws tus txiv cov phooj ywg thiab yuav tsum ua li cas?
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