Kub hauv tus menyuam: ua rau, qhov tseeb ntawm cov niam txiv, cov lus qhia los ntawm tus kws kho hlwb

2024 Tus sau: Priscilla Miln | [email protected]. Kawg hloov kho: 2024-02-18 01:33

Tus me nyuam qw nrov nrov, ntog rau hauv pem teb, writhing, ncaws, zoo li ib yam dab tsi tshwm sim tsis tau. Txawm hais tias koj tsuas yog tsis kam yuav nws ib puas thiab tsib lub tsheb hauv khw. Raws li kev soj ntsuam kev xav, 90% ntawm cov niam txiv ntsib kev ntxhov siab hauv tus menyuam. Lawv qhov siab tshaj plaws yog thaum muaj hnub nyoog 1.5-3 xyoos. Cov niam thiab txiv feem ntau thaum lub sijhawm zoo li no ploj lawm, tsis paub yuav ua li cas, thiab ua yuam kev tuag.

How the tantrum flows

Psychologists hais tias qhov kev tawm tsam hysterical tshwm sim hauv cov menyuam yaus yam tsis muaj kev ywj pheej vim muaj kev xav muaj zog. Ib tug me nyuam yaus tsis paub yuav ua li cas qhia nws txoj kev xav hauv cov lus. Nws tsis nkag siab tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim rau nws. Kev xav tau dhau mus rau nws, thiab tam sim no nws twb dov rau hauv pem teb, tsoo nws lub taub hau tawm tsam cov khoom, khawb nws tus kheej thiab cov neeg nyob ib puag ncig nws, tag nrho "tshem tawm" los ntawm ib puag ncig kev muaj tiag. Nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej hnyav, convulsive tshwm sim (tus choj hu ua hysterical).

Kev qaug dab peg hauv cov menyuam yaus feem ntau ua raws li hauv qab no:script:

1. Tus menyuam tsis hais lus qhia nws qhov kev tsis txaus siab: whimpers, grunts, sniffles, defiantly tsis kam koom nrog hauv kev sib tham. Nyob rau theem no, qhov tantrum tuaj yeem nres los ntawm kev cuam tshuam tus menyuam.
2. Tus me nyuam pib qw nrov nrov, ua rau lwm tus ntshai. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tus menyuam tsis hnov tus neeg laus, thuam lossis piav qee yam rau nws tsis muaj txiaj ntsig.
3. Tus me nyuam ntog rau hauv pem teb, stomps nws ko taw, pov khoom. Tib lub sijhawm, nws tsis mob, thiab tuaj yeem ua rau nws tus kheej raug mob lossis lwm tus neeg.
4. Tom qab "kev ua yeeb yam" cov menyuam yaus qaug zog, lawv nrhiav kev nplij siab los ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv, ntau tus tsaug zog. Qhov no yog ntuj - lub siab lub ntsws muaj zog poob lawv.

Kub hauv tus menyuam thaum muaj 2 xyoos yog qhov tshwm sim ntuj tsim. Lub sijhawm no, tus menyuam lub paj hlwb tsis zoo tag nrho. Nws tsis paub yuav tswj nws txoj kev xav li cas, ua kom nws siab zoo rau nws tus kheej. Nws yog ib qho nyuaj tshwj xeeb tshaj yog rau cov niam txiv ntawm qhov tsis xis nyob, ntxhov siab vim cov menyuam yaus uas muaj lub siab xav hloov. Ib tug me nyuam hyperactive kuj coj teeb meem ntau heev. Nws impulsiveness thiab excitability ua rau tsis tu ncua tantrums, uas yog feem ntau nrog los ntawm aggressive antics.

Nrhiav vim li cas

Ntau tus niam txiv yws yws tias kev ntxhov siab ntawm tus menyuam hnub nyoog 2 xyoos tshwm sim "los ntawm kos". Nws yog kev dag ntxias. Tus me nyuam tsis zoo tsuas yog thaum nws xav tsis zoo. Ntxiv mus, nws tseem tsis tuaj yeem qhia koj lub xeev hauv cov lus, yog li koj yuav tsum tau siv ntau txoj hauv kev pom. Feem ntau yog vim li cas thiaj tsis sib haum nrog niam lossis txiv. Ntawm no yog cov "ua rau" rau menyuam yauslus:

• Tus me nyuam muaj ib qho mob, thiab nws sim qhia rau koj nrog nws quaj.
• Tus me nyuam tsaug zog, xav noj lossis pw. Ib hnub muaj kev tshwm sim, kev ua haujlwm tsis zoo, mus ntsib - txhua yam no tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab.
• Cov niam txiv tsis kam ua raws li tus menyuam qhov kev xav tau, ua rau muaj kev tawm tsam.
• Tus me nyuam raug rub tawm ntawm kev ua si lom zem, yuam kom mus tsev, zaum noj lossis mus pw.
• Cov crumbs ua tsis tau ib yam ntawm lawv tus kheej: lub puzzle tsis ntxiv, cov khau khiab tsis khi.
• Tus me nyuam pom tau hais tias kev npau taws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau kev nyiam, txij li cov niam txiv tsis ua rau nws ua lwm yam.

Ntau zaus ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab hauv cov menyuam yaus cuam tshuam nrog kev hloov pauv hauv tsev neeg: kev nkag mus rau qib kindergarten, yug ntawm ib tug kwv tij lossis tus muam, niam txiv sib nrauj, kev sib cav tsis tu ncua. Tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv qhov nro thiab ntshai, uas ntws tawm thaum lub sij hawm qaug dab peg.

Qhov tshwm sim zoo tshaj plaws ntawm kev xav tsis zoo yog pom hauv cov menyuam yaus peb xyoos. Lub sijhawm no, lawv tab tom ntsib lub sijhawm muaj teebmeem cuam tshuam nrog kev paub txog lawv tus kheej li ib tus neeg txawv. Los ntawm whims thiab tantrums, cov me nyuam tab tom sim lees lawv tus kheej, tiv thaiv lawv cov kev txaus siab. Lawv kuj xav txog cov ciam teb ntawm qhov tso cai, txheeb xyuas dab tsi thiab "ua tsis tau", seb nws puas tuaj yeem cuam tshuam rau niam txiv txwv.

Nrog rau tus cwj pwm zoo ntawm cov neeg laus, tantrums tsis tshua muaj thiab nres thaum muaj hnub nyoog 4 xyoos. Tab sis yog tias tus me nyuam to taub tias cov neeg laus tuaj yeem tswj hwm nrog lawv txoj kev pab,tus cwj pwm no yuav dhau los ua tus cwj pwm.

Ntxhais niam txiv yuam kev

Psychologists pom zoo tias qhov kev ntxhov siab tas li hauv tus menyuam yog cuam tshuam nrog kev tsis ncaj ncees ntawm cov neeg laus. Tseeb tiag, nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau tswj kom muaj kev cia siab thaum tus me nyuam uas nws hlub squeals thiab ntaus nws lub taub hau rau ntawm phab ntsa. Peb teev qhov yuam kev ntau tshaj plaws:

• Txoj kev npau taws. Yog tias tom qab quaj thiab dov rau hauv pem teb, tus pog pom zoo mus yuav cov qhob noom xim kasfes uas tsis muaj hmoo, tom ntej "concert" yuav tsis ntev tom ntej.
• Qhia thiab foom. Cov ntawv hysterical nyob rau hauv leej niam lub suab yuav tsuas txhawb tus me nyuam hyperactive. Cov menyuam yaus nyiam luam lawv niam lawv txiv tus cwj pwm. Thaum cov laus tso cai rau lawv tus kheej kom tsis txhob npau taws, nws nyuaj rau xav tau lwm yam los ntawm tus menyuam.
• Assault. Los ntawm spanking ib tug me nyuam, koj ib txhij kos npe rau koj impotence. Tom qab ntawd, hysteria yuav tshwm sim. Koj tus menyuam yuav tsis tso siab rau koj vim koj muab nws lub kaus mom. Tsis tas li ntawd, nws ua rau koj qhov kev ntseeg siab ntawm koj, dhau los ua qhov ua rau muaj kev sib cav sib ceg.
• Tseem nyiam mloog, sim ua kom tus me nyuam tsaug zog. Lub tantrum yog npaj rau tus saib thiab yuav txuas ntxiv mus ntev li ntev tau koj lub siab xav ua rau nws.
• Kev hem thawj uas tsis ua tiav. Lawv tau cog lus tias yuav muab cov khoom qab zib pov tseg uas ua rau tus menyuam yaus qw - ua. Txwv tsis pub, tus me nyuam yuav nkag siab tias koj tsuas ntshai nws, thiab yuav tsis mloog cov lus khoob.
• ob tus qauv. Thaum txiv txwv tsis pub noj ncuav qab zib, thiab niam muab lawv zais cia, tus me nyuam tsis teb lo lus "tsis yog". Nws xaus tias koj tuaj yeem tau txais yam koj xav tau nrog kev siv zog me ntsis.

Kev Tiv Thaiv Kev Ncaj Ncees

Nws yooj yim dua los tiv thaiv whims dua li daws lawv qhov tshwm sim tom qab. Yuav ua li cas thiaj ua kom muaj kev ntxhov siab hauv tus menyuam tsis tshua muaj tshwm sim? Ua raws li cov cai hauv qab no:

• Nyob zoo txhua hnub. Xyuas kom koj tus menyuam noj thiab mus pw raws sijhawm. Tsis txhob cia siab tias koj tus menyuam yuav hloov kho raws li lub sijhawm hloov pauv.
• Rituals. Cov menyuam yaus nyiam ua haujlwm rov ua dua. Lawv ua rau muaj kev hlub tshua thiab kev xav zoo. Yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj tantrums ua ntej yuav mus pw, tsim ib lub sijhawm pw tsaug zog: da dej sov nrog oregano, so so, mis nyuj sov, zoo nkauj dab neeg, tus dais nyiam ntawm koj sab, thiab lub teeb hmo ntuj lom zem. Tsis ntev tus me nyuam yuav tau siv rau qhov kev txiav txim no thiab yuav tsaug zog tsis muaj teeb meem.
• txwv koj qhov kev saib TV. Cov kws kho mob ntseeg tias cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog qis dua 3 xyoos yuav tsum tsis txhob saib tas luav thiab ua si hauv computer. Cov dej num no tsis yog tsuas yog ua rau tsis pom kev xwb, tab sis kuj ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab ntau dhau ntawm lub paj hlwb.
• Nyob ntsiag to. Tsis txhob qw ntawm tus menyuam mos, tsis txhob ua nws ua pov thawj rau tsev neeg sib cav. Yog tias cov neeg laus tsis paub tswj lawv tus cwj pwm, lawv tsis zoo li yuav qhia qhov no rau lawv cov menyuam.
• Npaj rau kev hloov. Yog tias qhov kev hloov pauv tseem ceeb tuaj rau hauv koj tus menyuam lub neej, qhia nws txog nws, nyeem ob peb zaj dab neeg ntawm kev hloov pauv, cog lus txhawb nqa thiab muab sijhawm rau nws siv rau cov xwm txheej tshiab.
• Qhov kev txwv tsis pub muaj tseeb. Tus menyuam yuav tsum paub qhov txwv ntawm qhov tso cai. Lawv yuav tsum tsis txhob hloov nyob rau hauv ib qho xwm txheej. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum muaj tib lub siab txog qhov no.lus nug. Txawm li cas los xij, yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj kev txwv ntau dhau thiab lawv yuav tsum tsim nyog.
• Cia koj tus menyuam nyob ywj pheej. Cia nws pab koj ntxuav tais diav, ua cov nyees khawm nws tus kheej, txawm tias qhov no yuav siv sij hawm ntev dua.
• Cia peb xaiv. Tsis tas yuav nug seb tus menyuam puas noj tshais. Zoo dua qhia tias yuav ua li cas rau nws: porridge lossis tsev cheese?
• Ua sijhawm. Ua capricious, tus me nyuam attracts xim rau nws tus kheej. Kev cog lus rau tus me nyuam yog qhov zoo dua li kev tsis quav ntsej tag nrho. Yog li ntawd, muab koj tus menyuam txoj kev hlub thaum nws nyob hauv lub siab zoo. puag nws, ua si ua ke, ua khoom siv tes ua, qhuas nws rau nws txoj kev vam meej.

Yuav ua li cas kom txhob muaj kev ntxhov siab ntawm txoj kev?

Txawm hais tias txhua qhov kev siv zog, sai lossis tom qab koj yuav ntsib tus menyuam tus cwj pwm tsis tsim nyog. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv xws li ib tug teeb meem yog tsis yuav tsum tau los ntawm surprise. Yuav ua li cas teb rau ib tug me nyuam txoj kev tantrums kom lawv tsis ua tus qauv? Thaum pib, koj tuaj yeem sim cuam tshuam tus menyuam, hloov nws txoj kev xav mus rau lwm yam haujlwm. Qhov tseem ceeb yog nyob twj ywm.

Show hardness. Yog tias koj tau txwv qee yam - tsis txhob hloov koj qhov kev txiav txim siab. Tab sis muab ib qho kev xaiv. Tsis muaj teeb meem koj yuav tsum tau kos rau ntawm phab ntsa, tab sis koj tuaj yeem txuas ib daim duab kos rau nws thiab tsim koj tus kheej masterpieces ntawm nws. Yog tias koj maj nrawm mus rau tsev kho mob, thiab tus menyuam tsis kam tawm mus yam tsis muaj tsheb kauj vab, hais tias lub tsheb kauj vab muaj mob. Nws yuav tsum tau pw. Tab sis ib tug dais los yog ib tug luav yuav zoo siab mus rau lub tsev kho mob nrog koj. Nws yuav xaiv leej twg?

Kom tau tus me nyuam mloog, squat down, simntes saib. Hais nws tus cwj pwm: "Tam sim no koj npau taws vim koj xav pw. Cia peb stomp nrog koj kom txhob npau taws. Koj puas tau stomp txawm nrov?" Ua siab zoo, khawm tus me nyuam, muab kev tawm tsam los ntawm kev ncaws pob lossis pov cov khoom ua si mos. Nqa ib tug me nyuam mos nyob rau hauv koj txhais tes, tig lub suab paj nruag, tua lub teeb, hais lus rau nws lub suab hu nkauj. Koj tuaj yeem saib cov neeg hla dhau ntawm lub qhov rais, nrhiav tus noog zais.

Thaum tus me nyuam sib cuag thiab tso siab me ntsis, muab ib qho kev txiav txim (nrhiav ib qho khoom ua si uas yuav da dej, nqa niam xov tooj). Koj tuaj yeem hu rau ib tus neeg nyob ze thiab qhuas tus menyuam kom tiv thaiv nws txoj kev xav.

Yog qhov tantrum pib…

Nws tsis yog ib txwm ua tau los tiv thaiv kua muag thiab ua yeeb yam dov ntawm cov ntaub pua plag. Nws tsis muaj txiaj ntsig los hais lus rau kev xav, sim pom zoo thaum tus menyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum ua li cas? cog lus? hem? Kev nplij siab? Sawv ntawm thiab saib? Mus rau lwm chav?

Cia peb paub txog cov lus qhia ntawm kev puas siab puas ntsws. Tus me nyuam npau taws yuav dhau mus sai yog tias koj ua raws li cov cai no:

• Ua siab ntev. Txoj kev zoo tshaj tawm yog xoom tshuaj tiv thaiv. Tus menyuam yaus yuav nkag siab tias cov neeg laus tsis teb nws lub suab, thiab tsis txhob siv cov tshuaj no tsis zoo. Kev nruj kev tsiv los yog kev hlub tshua, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, tsuas yog ua rau qhov teeb meem loj dua. Txhawm rau tiv thaiv koj tus kheej txoj kev xav, sim hloov koj txoj kev xav rau koj ua pa, lub cev hnov qab. Xav txog tias koj tau loj hlob tuaj, thiab tus menyuam quaj qw tau dhau losme me, qhov loj ntawm tus pinhead.
• Tsis txhob hloov siab. Yog tias ib yam dab tsi txwv tsis pub, hais rau koj tus kheej. Cov menyuam yaus xav tau ib thaj tsam meej, kev tso cai ua rau muaj kev phom sij.
• Tau tib yam rau txhua qhov kev ntxhov siab. Nws yog qhov zoo yog tias txhua tus neeg hauv tsev neeg ua raws li txoj cai no. Txwv tsis pub, tshem cov neeg laus uas ntshai heev los ntawm chav tsev lossis xa lawv mus taug kev. Cov neeg saib ntau dua, qhov tantrum ntev dua.
• Yog cov xeeb ntxwv dov rau hauv pem teb, muab cov khoom pov tseg, khawb, tsis txhob coj teeb meem raug mob. Siv cov txheej txheem tuav. Nws yog nyob rau hauv qhov tseeb hais tias leej niam coj tus me nyuam nyob rau hauv nws txhais tes ntawm nws txhais tes, puag nws nruj nreem, txawm tias nws tawg. Koj yuav tsum tuav tus menyuam kom txog thaum nws ntsia rau hauv koj lub qhov muag. Ua txhua yam ntsiag to, tsis muaj kev xav tsis tsim nyog.
• Yog tias tsis muaj kev phom sij ntawm kev raug mob, tsuas yog nyob ntawd yam tsis muaj kev cuam tshuam lossis hais lus. Koj tuaj yeem ua txuj tias koj tab tom tshuaj xyuas cov ntsiab lus ntawm lub xov tooj ntawm tes. Cov kws kho mob feem ntau tsis pom zoo kom tso tus menyuam nyob ib leeg hauv lub xeev no. Tom qab tag nrho, tam sim no nws tab tom raug kev txom nyem loj. Thaum cov neeg laus tawm mus, zoo li tus menyuam yaus uas nws nyuaj siab rau niam thiab txiv, lawv thiaj tso nws mus rau txoj kev hlub tshua.
• Thaum qhov haum ntawm qhov kev npau taws txo qis, koj yuav tsum tau tu siab rau tus menyuam mos, nqa nws txhais tes, hnia, tab sis tsis muaj kev cog lus khoom plig lossis cov cai. Feem ntau cov menyuam yaus tsis muaj zog tom qab muaj kev ntxhov siab, muab sijhawm rau lawv noj lossis pw.
• Tsis txhob cem tus menyuam. Nws tsis muaj txiaj ntsig los nrhiav pom los ntawm nws cov laj thawj rau tus cwj pwm zoo li no, nws tus kheej tsis paub txog lawv. Piav seb dab tsi tuaj rau nws"snarky", yog li nws qw thiab pov khoom. Nyeem cov dab neeg tshwj xeeb, ua si tawm qhov xwm txheej ntawm cov piv txwv ntawm cov khoom ua si yuav pab kom nkag siab txog cov kev xav tau ntsib. Qhia koj tus menyuam kom tswj nws txoj kev xav: kom nws qhia koj tus nplaig lossis tsa nws txhais tes thaum nws hnov txog qhov "kub" rau lwm zaus. Xyaum ua ke.

Tus kws kho mob Komarovsky cov lus qhia

Psychologists paub meej tias cov menyuam yaus tsis tswj lawv tus kheej thaum muaj kev tawm tsam. Lwm qhov kev pom yog qhia los ntawm tus kws kho mob nto moo E. Komarovsky. Tantrums nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam, nyob rau hauv nws lub tswv yim, yog tshwm sim arbitrarily thiab yeej ib txwm qhia rau tus neeg saib. Yog hais tias leej niam tsis hnov tsw rau lub suab quaj ntawm cov crumbs, nws yuav coj zoo nrog nws. Tab sis ib tug ntshai heev yuav ua tim khawv tsis kawg whims.

Koj tsuas tuaj yeem daws qhov teeb meem los ntawm kev qhia koj qhov kev tsis txaus siab ua rau lub kua muag thiab stomping koj ob txhais taw. Txhua tus hauv tsev neeg yuav tau ua li no. Yog ib tug neeg (feem ntau yog ib tug pog) tso tseg, nws yuav yog nws tus me nyuam uas yuav raug siv los siv ntxiv.

Nws yog qhov zoo dua rau kev txiav cov menyuam mos los ntawm tantrums thaum muaj hnub nyoog 1-2 xyoos. Tus kws kho mob pom zoo kom tus menyuam quaj qw yuav tsum tau tso rau hauv qhov chaw. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, cov neeg laus tawm hauv chav, thiab rov qab los tsuas yog tom qab lub suab quaj tau nres. Yog tias lawv qhov tsos ua rau lub kua muag tshiab, koj yuav tsum tawm mus dua. Ob hnub txaus los txhim kho qhov kev xav tau ruaj khov: "Niam nyob ze yog tias kuv tsis qw."

Nws nyuaj rau cov menyuam loj dua, vim lawv twb tau ua tiav qhov lawv xav tau ntawm txoj kev no. Yuav ua li cas calm tus me nyuam nrog tantrum? EvgeniyKomarovsky ua cov lus pom zoo hauv qab no:

• Qhia koj tus menyuam kom qhia nws txoj kev xav nrog cov lus.
• Tsis txhob txhawj txog tus me nyuam tsis txaus siab, nws zoo dua xa nws mus rau kindergarten. Cov neeg zov me nyuam zoo li tsis tshua nyiam niam txiv.
• Zam "kev phom sij" qhov xwm txheej uas tus menyuam pib cuam tshuam (kev qaug zog, tshaib plab, nrawm nrawm heev).
• Thaum lub whimpering pib, tus me nyuam yuav tsum tau cuam tshuam.
• Yog koj tus menyuam tuav nws ua pa thaum quaj, tsis txhob ceeb. Tshuab rau ntawm nws lub ntsej muag thiab nws yuav nqus tau pa.
• Tsis txhob cia menyuam yeej. Tantrums nyob rau hauv cov me nyuam hnub nyoog 4-5 xyoo yog yuav luag ib txwm tshwm sim ntawm kev loj hlob tsis tsim nyog. Los ntawm me me manipulators, dhau sij hawm, tag nrho uncontrolled hluas hluas loj hlob uas tsis coj mus rau hauv tus account lub tswv yim ntawm cov neeg nyob ib ncig ntawm lawv.

Public tantrum

Thaum tus menyuam qw thiab ntaus nws txhais taw hauv khw, ntawm qhov chaw ua si, nws tus cwj pwm yog tsim los rau ntau tus neeg saib. Yeej yuav muaj ib tug niam tais uas muaj siab mos siab muag uas yuav txaj muag rau tus niam "tsis muaj hmoo". Yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob muaj kev ntxhov siab hauv menyuam yaus thaum muaj ntau tus neeg nyob ib puag ncig, thiab lawv txhua tus saib koj nrog kev rau txim?

Rau cov niam txiv, qhov no yog qhov teeb meem nyuaj tshaj plaws. Ib tug neeg mus txog lub capricious, provoking tshiab tantrums. Lwm tus ntshai tus me nyuam nrog "babayka", ua txuj tawm mus. Tag nrho qhov no yog qhov tsis txaus ntseeg, vim nws ua rau muaj kev ntshai, kev ntxhov siab, thiab tsis paub tseeb hauv tus menyuam tus ntsuj plig. Txawm nyuaj npaum li cas los, cov niam txiv yuav tsum nyob twj ywm. Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws thaum tus menyuam muaj kev ntxhov siab,nqa nws thiab coj nws mus rau qhov chaw nyob ntsiag to. Nyob ntawd koj yuav muaj peev xwm tswj tau koj tus kheej, thiab tus me nyuam yuav nyob twj ywm sai dua yam tsis muaj pawg txhawb nqa loj.

Kev hloov mus rau preschool yog qhov mob rau ntau tus menyuam. Tantrums nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam nyob rau hauv kindergarten tshwm sim ob qho tib si thaum lub sij hawm nrog niam txiv thiab tom qab. Lawv cov laj thawj tuaj yeem muaj ntau haiv neeg: kev sib txuas lus zoo rau leej niam, tsis xis nyob, ib puag ncig txawv txav, tus kws qhia nruj, kev tsis sib haum xeeb nrog lwm tus menyuam.

Yuav ua kom nws yooj yim rau tus menyuam hloov, cov niam txiv tuaj yeem:

• Qhia tus me nyuam hnav khaub ncaws, ntxuav, noj lawv tus kheej. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav tsis npau taws tias lwm tus menyuam yuav hnav pantyhose thiab nws ua tsis tau.
• Ua si ntau zaus nrog lwm tus menyuam hauv chaw ua si, qhia tus menyuam kom paub lawv, qhia cov khoom ua si, daws teeb meem.
• Ua noj ib yam zaub mov hauv tsev uas npaj rau hauv kindergarten, hloov mus rau tib lub sijhawm txhua hnub.
• Thawj coj tus me nyuam mus taug kev yav tsaus ntuj kom nws pom tias leej niam tuaj rau cov menyuam li cas.
• Muab khoom ua si hauv tsev nrog koj, koj li "kom txuag". Qhov no ua rau nws yooj yim dua rau tus menyuam kom dhau qhov kev sib cais.
• Tau nrog kev lom zem: tuaj tos, hu nkauj, hnia tus menyuam, xav kom muaj hnub lom zem thiab tsuas yog tawm mus.
• Txhob ntshai thaum tus me nyuam npuaj lub tsho, tsis txhob khiav tawm tsis pom, tsis txhob rub tawm qhov tsis zoo. Lub calmer tus niam txiv thiab tus phooj ywg tus neeg zov me nyuam ntawm kev sib cais, sai duatantrums yuav dhau mus.
• Tsis txhob lig, tuaj rau tus menyuam raws sijhawm tau cog lus tseg.
• Tsis txhob ua phem rau tus kws qhia ntawv. Tsis zoo li tus me nyuam yuav pom zoo nrog tus phauj "phem" hnub tom qab.

Nyob rau tus kws kho mob

Yog tias koj tab tom ua haujlwm rau kev daws teeb meem thiab kev ntxhov siab hnyav zuj zus, koj yuav xav tau kev pab los ntawm cov kws tshaj lij. Mus ntsib kws kho mob hlwb hauv cov xwm txheej hauv qab no:

• tantrums nyob rau hauv ib tug me nyuam yog tsis tsim nyog, dhau sij hawm lawv ua ntau zaus, ua nruj nreem;
• tus me nyuam sim ua mob rau cov neeg laus, cov phooj ywg lossis nws tus kheej;
• qaug dab peg nrog kev tsaus muag, ua tsis taus pa tuav;
• xeev siab, ua tsis taus pa, tsis muaj zog txaus tom qab kev tawm tsam;
• tantrums pib thaum hmo ntuj, nrog rau kev npau suav phem phem, qw, somnambulism;
• koj cov xeeb ntxwv twb muaj 5 xyoos lawm, tab sis nws mob qaug dab peg tsis tu ncua.

Kub hauv tus menyuam tuaj yeem tshwm sim los ntawm kab mob ntawm lub paj hlwb, tab sis feem ntau lawv yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev loj hlob tsis raug. Tsis txhob ntshai cov me nyuam lub kua muag thiab aggression. Cov niam txiv calmer thiab ua siab ntev, qhov teeb meem sai dua. Kawm tswj koj tus cwj pwm, thiab tus menyuam yuav ua piv txwv los ntawm koj.